We had an interesting time on Sunday after church. Jeremy and Mel met me and my wife, Janice, at the Corner Bakery for lunch. The agenda was a discussion of names.
First, let me say that it is an honor to be asked, and a further honor to be made to feel that our opinion actually means something. Thank you Jeremy and Mel!
It was a lot of fun to get a little detached and watch the interplay between Jeremy and Janice. Jeremy and Mel had their list of “possibles” and as Jeremy went through them, Janice grabbed a napkin and started writing. I think that she had the “first pass” as I’m not convinced that EVERY name Jeremy read off made it onto her list. Then, she crossed off a couple and handed me the napkin.
She said, “Underline the ones that you like.” Having been married for more than three decades, I obediently underlined about eight … and crossed off two. Just could not imagine having a “Silas” in the family! I have already forgotten the other nixed name. Then I handed the list back to Janice and she looked at my work, apparently dissatisfied with my ability to adequately narrow the field.
She handed it back to me and said, “Circle your favorite two or three.” I looked over the list and handed it to Jeremy and said, “It’s not OUR kid, it’s their kid! I’m just not THAT invested in what they name him.”
Understand that all of this exchange contained a great deal of jocularity and fun. We spent another hour or so talking about names and the nicknames that would surely follow. My dad always called Jeremy “Jerm” – a name which has stuck in the family to this day. I warned that if they ended up with names (first and middle) that did not easily roll off the tongue and properly demand the appropriate attention in a heated moment, that I would revert to “Bubba”. Jeremy and I both thought that was funny … Janice and Mel, maybe not so much.
I have to say that that lunch will be a lasting and treasured memory for me and my wife. What a blessing to have the opportunity to be part of that special process! I believe that Jeremy and Mel will also hold it as one of those “special” happenings that will help define them and their family.